POWER

POWER

 

there is a book by Gary Zukov titled;

 

SEAT OF THE SOUL

 

It was a best seller for a long time.  In it he talks

about power.  He sez there are two kinds;

 

AUTHENTIC POWER

 

Authentic power produces a product such as a artist, musician, writer, etc.

 

ARTIFICIAL POWER

 

Money, drugs, sex and guns, etc.

 

What he doesn't talk about is a third form of power called;

 

THE POWER OF DENIAL

 

Those with no authentic or artificial power the only power left is that of denial.  Ever notice those with a little power, like parking lot attendants and store clerks are anxious to exercise it.  That indicates doubts about it.  Those with real power use it

cautiously.

 

Making someone wait is a power trip in and of itself.

 

The desire for the power of denial is so strong that people fabricate it's use.  They can't fire you till they hire you.  They can't stand you up unless they agree to meet you.

 

PUSSY POWER

 

Then there are women to gain attention and thus power will imply or at least not deny that if you be nice to them long enuff, just maybe the jade stem may be permitted to enter the earthly valley of heavenly delights.

 

We all know how this game is played.  If you displease her majesty you will be told that your never gonna' get there.

 

Honey, nothing from nothing is nothing.  You gotta' have something if you wanna' be with me.

 

I was at a gallery opening once.  The owner's daughter was the center of attention.

 

She was talking to two guys when two other guys walked in.  First thing she said is;  did you bring my cigarettes?  Fantasy popped.  Can I be your go fir?  Lucky me.

 

Women's power is in how many suitors they can attract.  Then it becomes how many they can blow off. (Deny)

 

(You know the secret to getting a woman.  Put a wedding band on.  It is a bigger feather in a woman's cap to not only get a man but take him from another woman.  Tell her your getting a divorce.  Because she has more money than you your negotiating the amount of alimoney)

 

As a night time cab driver when I took groups of people downtown.  The car full of young guys would talk about the girls they were gonna' get.  The girls talked about the guys they were gonna' meet.

 

Going home the guys talked about the girls they almost got and the girls talked about the guys they blew off

 

Insecure women flirt with a lot of guys.  They become the center of attention and re-inforce the belief that they are desireable and still have power.

 

When I was homeless women wouldn't give me the time of day.  Then one day a woman came along, was friendly and gave me her number.  When I called it she invited me over.  While I was there she was on the phone to another guy when one knocked on the door.

 

When a woman gets older and her flower begins to fade and younger girls get more attention (after all it is about making babies) they panic.  They can sense the loss of power and begin to flirt with a lot of men.

Nothing is sadder than to go in to a titty bar and see a woman who held on too long and banked on a fading flower.

 

Unless your sincere, flirting is teasing and teasing's

not nice.  It leads to frustration, frustration to anger, anger to violence and violence to rape.

 

If you don't want the bull to charge don't wave the red flag.  If you do you may get more than you bargained for

 

 

 

 

VARIATIONS ON A THEME

I know from lot'sa of experience that if you rise too the bait the first time a woman flirts with you
she will say, that you miss-interpeted the signals and she just wants to be friends.  Then you ask them to share some time with you.  They will say they're busy.  The truth is we make time for the things we consider to be important.  That's how we know someone is a true friend, they make time for us.

What kind of friend is it that does not make time
for you?

I learned not to rise to the bait the first time.  If you don't they will then escalate the flirting.  If you still do not take the bait they will continue until you do.

I had a so called girl friend in Lancaster, Pa. when my arms were broken.  She took me in and took care of me, made love etc. for about a month then one day said out loud,...what am I doing?

If what she did wasn't a come on sign, what is ?

Over the years I've gotten good at the game.  I've watched women wrap the rope around thier necks four or five times and rush over the cliff.  The second you say o.k. I like you too....

...you misinterpted the signs...I just want to be
friends but I'm 'busy" right now.